Here’s another set of words from a classic TV show, Mash: Maj. Margaret “Hot Lips” Houlihan: Colonel… Maj. Margaret “Hot Lips” Houlihan: Major Burns is ready to assist. Army Capt. “Trapper John” McIntyre: What do you think I’m doing? Stalling … Continue reading
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Deal or No Deal
I was watching reruns of “Deal or No Deal” – what a show that robs the contestant’s minds of sensibility. In this particular episode, the banker offered the female contestant $266,000 for her briefcase. To tempt her more, he offered … Continue reading
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Reliable Distractions
Do you know the purpose of the magician’s lovely assistant? It’s usually a “she”, wearing a form-fitting outfit, showing a lot of leg …. you get the picture. Her primary purpose is to focus all of your attention on her, as … Continue reading
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How long is 'forever'?
I had ‘frozen shoulder’ and am reminded of it when I travel. I won’t check my suitcases, and can usually put it in the overhead bin by myself. There are times, however, that I cannot raise my arm and have the strength to push … Continue reading
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Triggering the emotions of others
Many people ‘wander’ through life not cognizant of the effect they have on others. Others simply do not care – they are who they are and they will not change their people-interaction-skills or techniques for anyone. They believe it is … Continue reading
New Year's Resolutions
So here we are, about six weeks short of 2010. How have you done with your 2009 Resolutions, or the goals you have set for yourself this year? Or do you not set them because you lose interest in them? … Continue reading
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Sarcasm or Intentionally Forcing Happiness?
Remember this scene from “The Sound of Music” … It’s Maria’s [Julie Andrews] first evening dinner with the Captain and the children. Earlier that day the children placed a frog in her dress pocket. Instead of chastising them, she took … Continue reading