Where Behavioral Leadership Meets Emotional Intelligence – Shari Frisinger

communications

Early in life teachings

Early in life we are taught to play nice and follow the Golden Rule. As we grow up and enter the business world, we find out that there are different ways to play nice. Others (or our own) behaviors can … Continue reading

Does 'Pilot Error' Really Exist?

As we know, ‘pilot error’ is the cause of many accidents. The precursor of Pilot Error is aviation medicine …. This was a result of the aircraft manufacturers having to replace numerous crashed planes by pilot wanna-be’s. In the early … Continue reading

Breaking Bottlenecks

Breaking Bottlenecks The year is nearly half over …how are things going?  How many of your goals have you achieved?  Did you identify your motivations and your obstacles?  Were your motivators strong enough for you to overcome your obstacles?  Did … Continue reading

Behold the Ultimate Truth!

Why don’t we tell others how to manage or communicate with ourselves? This seems like a very simple concept, doesn’t it? Think about how much easier, or simpler, our lives would be if we were forthright with this information. Aahh … Continue reading

High Priority Emails … are they?

For hours today I was at my computer trying feverishly to clear out my inbox. Some of my ‘unread’ emails I had already taken care of [thank goodness, although there were not nearly enough of those], some had to be … Continue reading

All you need is …. remember we're in the workplace

I gave a Supervisor and Communications seminar recently to first and second level supervisors.  One of the topics the President wanted me to discuss was “How do you let your direct reports, and others that are not your direct reports, … Continue reading

Are Interpretations Reality?

We seem to go in cycles of “You said ….” “No I didn’t, I said …” “No you didn’t …”, and we are in the midst of one of those cycles now.  I am reminded of a trip to an … Continue reading

The Crime or The Act?

Our actions can have an unintended result on others.  What we perceive as teasing or playing around, another can see it as bullying or harassment.  Corporations have sexual harassment training.  It is quite interesting in that an employee can be … Continue reading

One Resolution to Smelling Badly?

Has this confusion ever happened to you? There’s an old tale in the Marine Corps about a lieutenant who inspected his platoon, and told the sergeant that the troops smelled badly. The lieutenant suggested that the troops change their underwear. … Continue reading

The Difference between Always and Almost Always

In my leadership and communications seminars, we talk about ambiguous words …. words like ‘always’ , ‘almost always’, ‘rarely’ and ‘never’.  The meaning of these words may seem clear to you…and yet you would be surprised at the responses. According to my research … Continue reading