emotional turmoil

Stopping at the amygdala ….

while en route to your neo-cortex can cause you all sorts of problems! A key point to know is how your brain reacts to threats.  We feel before we think. Emotions come before thoughts. Your amygdala houses your emotions and … Continue reading

Subliminal Communication Rituals

This is an excerpt from an article on How Subliminal Advertising Works.  One paragraph states: The more stressed-out we are by the financial crisis and other problems, the more we unconsciously adhere to familiar, comforting rituals. Think how this affects … Continue reading

Emotions Rule!

At the Flight Attendants Conference 2010 , Matt Thurber wrote a compelling summary of the entire conference.  He captured the high points of my session — Emotions Rule! — scroll down for an interesting read!

Smile your way through stress

Think of one specific word that makes you smile — remember to say aloud that word when you feel tension and stress rising in your body.

Social vs basic emotions

Social emotions shame,guilt jealousy have more thinking involved than basic emotions joy,love,anger. Latter more instinct & survival-based.

Defenses rising ….

Next time you feel your defenses rising, ask yourself “why?”,then “which means?” & end with “how does that make me feel?”. Honesty is key!

Feel yourself getting tense?

Doodle with your non-dominant hand 3-5 minutes. This refocuses your thoughts and relaxes your tense mind.