intention

I Want to Make People Laugh

I love old movies … the dialog, the classic stories, the high acting quality.And I grew up on them, so they hold great childhood memories. I was watching an episode of Night Gallery entitled “Make Me Laugh”.It’s the story of … Continue reading

Behold the Ultimate Truth!

Why don’t we tell others how to manage or communicate with ourselves? This seems like a very simple concept, doesn’t it? Think about how much easier, or simpler, our lives would be if we were forthright with this information. Aahh … Continue reading

Confusion Reigns with Assessments

Even though I am a distributor of, and believe strongly, in the DiSC behavioral assessment, I have been researching other assessments, learning styles and behavioral models.  Talk about an overwhelming task!  There are at least a dozen types, including Myers … Continue reading

All you need is …. remember we’re in the workplace

I gave a Supervisor and Communications seminar recently to first and second level supervisors.  One of the topics the President wanted me to discuss was “How do you let your direct reports, and others that are not your direct reports, … Continue reading

Are Interpretations Reality?

We seem to go in cycles of “You said ….” “No I didn’t, I said …” “No you didn’t …”, and we are in the midst of one of those cycles now.  I am reminded of a trip to an … Continue reading

Is 'always' always and 'never' never?

Even when we think we know what we are saying, our words can still be ambiguous. For instance: When you yourself says the word ‘always’, what percentage of time does that event occur? Does ‘always’ occur 100% of the time? … Continue reading

Transformational vs. Transactional = Women vs. Men

We know that men and women think differently. A recent study by Northwestern University in Chicago reports: the best bosses are inspirational mentors who encourage their subordinates to develop their abilities and creatively change their organisations. This is referred to … Continue reading

Happy Thanksgiving

Today is a grand day for giving thanks.  I wish all my family, friends, colleagues, clients, prospects, web-readers and blog-readers both inside and outside the United States many reasons to give thanks.  We all have things to be thankful for.  The … Continue reading

Communication and Autism

I saw on the news that a 13-year old girl, Carly, who is severely autistic, is now communicating on the computer. Her parents were astounded when, two years ago, Carly typed out some words. She is communicating, through the voice … Continue reading

Deal or No Deal – Again

In a rerun of the TV Reality Show Deal or No Deal episode, Howie told the contestant: The banker wants you to have your dream because his dream is to get you out of here. Usually Howie tells the contestant … Continue reading