Where Behavioral Leadership Meets Emotional Intelligence – Shari Frisinger

perspective

Sarcasm or Intentionally Forcing Happiness?

Remember this scene from “The Sound of Music” … It’s Maria’s [Julie Andrews] first evening dinner with the Captain and the children.  Earlier that day the children placed a frog in her dress pocket.  Instead of chastising them, she took … Continue reading

Fill Your Memory Bank

How many times have you been dissatisfied with an outcome, only to have someone else present a totally different perspective?   Would you be able to maintain the optimism that this gentleman did under his circumstance? A 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and … Continue reading

Inside your brain: Techniques for reducing conflict with coworkers

When cooperation with coworkers is at a low level, conflict increases, productivity  decreases, tempers are shortened, deadlines are missed and safety is compromised.  These high stress levels fuel conflict and disharmony, which directly affects productivity and damages your safety culture. … Continue reading

What do you see … part 1

  In black you can read the word GOOD, in white the word EVIL (inside each black letter is a white letter). It’s all very physiological too, because use it visualize the concept that good can’t exist without evil (or … Continue reading

Layoff Survivors = Victims?

There is a study out stating that those employees that survive layoffs are considered ‘victims’.  They are victims because they are still employed and they have to do more work than they had to do before  —- to make up … Continue reading

Gaining Rapport by Asking Questions

Questions are your most powerful tool in gaining rapport. Questions give you control of the conversation and help steer the direction of the conversation. As a presenter, questions can help you improve your presentation. As a boss, they can let … Continue reading

Oil and Water People in the Office

Are members of your staff like oil and water – not mixing well enough to become a team? As a manager, you’ve seen the stress involved, and are not immune to their feelings as well as the pressure from your … Continue reading

Early in life teachings

Early in life we are taught to play nice and follow the Golden Rule. As we grow up and enter the business world, we find out that there are different ways to play nice. Others (or our own) behaviors can … Continue reading

Surface Level or Deep Thinker?

Think of your staff … each one uses a different thought process  when faced with a challenge. Some will look at the personal side and how it will affect the team, others look at the situation from a strictly-business perspective.  … Continue reading

What You See Does Not Currently Exist

According to the History Channel’s program “The Universe – Light Speed” …. Laura Danly, Griffith Park Observatory Curator in LA: Because it takes time to travel, we’re able to look back in time, the further out we look in distance, … Continue reading