Thursday, June 3rd, 2010
I gave a Supervisor and Communications seminar recently to first and second level supervisors. One of the topics the President wanted me to discuss was “How do you let your direct reports, and others that are not your direct reports, know their jobs are important?” Instead of (more…)
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Monday, February 15th, 2010
I recently read an article from Knowledge @ Wharton that gave an interesting perspective: It asks
Why doesn’t education focus on what humans can do better than the machines and instruments they create?
It goes on to say
Teaching enables the teacher to discover what one thinks about the subject being taught. Schools are upside down: Students should be teaching and faculty learning.
In their book, Turning Learning Right Side Up: Putting Education Back on Track, authors Russell L. Ackhoff and Daniel Greenberg state that there are numerous ways to learn …. teaching, or lecturing, is only one of them. Studies have shown that this is the least effective way for someone to learn … remember how boring it was to hear an instructor drone on and on and on … how much of that monologue did you actually remember?
Group discussions, provided they are brainstorming sessions, are great ways to remember theories and concepts.
The most effective way is to teach .. or ‘teach back’. This is when you teach someone else, either in a formal or informal session, what you learned. To be able to do that effectively does not require a high ability to teach or train … it requires a desire to communicate more clearly.
Being aware of your communications, your perspective and what gets you defensive or impatient, and taking the steps to handle each of these appropriately, is one sign of high emotional intelligence. And the makings of a great leader.
Let me ask you ….. what is your level of emotional intelligence?
Tags: Daniel Greenberg, emotional intelligence skills, emotional intelligence techniques, feedback, Knowledge @ Wharton, leadership, lecturing, listening, praise, Russell L. Ackhoff, teaching
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Tuesday, February 9th, 2010
One topic that comes up fairly regularly when my clients want to improve employee engagement and loyalty. Teed to praise their staff. These executives are surprised when I tell them that they do indeed need to tell their people that they were performing well and be specific (more…)
Tags: feedback, Fiddler on the Roof, leadership, praise
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Friday, February 5th, 2010
It seems no matter what the economy is doing, keeping good employees is the #1 concern of executives. The #1 reason those good employees leave is still bad managers, according to a recent article in the Atlanta Business Journal. “Unhappiness with management” ranked far and above “not enough opportunities for (more…)
Tags: Atlanta Business Journal, communication, emotional intelligence techniques, leadership, praise, rewards, Robert Half International
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Friday, August 14th, 2009
At a recent Leadership workshop I facilitated, we opened the session sharing our ‘lessons learned’. Three had to do with listening and 12 had to do with effective communication. Among the responses were “check for understanding”, “avoid being judgmental”, “quick and constructive feedback, “daily communication” and “management by walking around”. (more…)
Tags: emotional intelligence skills, emotional intelligence techniques, feedback, leadership, lessons learne, listening, management by walking around, praise
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